Secret Sauce to Public Feuds
What’s in the sauce? We pick our battles and take screenshots in case someone becomes forgetful. People will foam at the mouth to get a reaction out of me— for a very long time, I haven’t felt the need to discuss certain matters with others. Not everything should stay silent, but small things are easily discarded. If I should need to recall something, BAM! screenshot. I realized and discern what needs addressing, when, and with whom, then proceed accordingly. This doesn’t mean to dismiss, silence or swallow my emotions all together either— if we feel angry, feel it and put it out physically (write about it, put in a song, artwork, punch a bag, workout, scream, grab a shovel and dig some dirt, etc.).